Yes and looking at it the other way, you shouldn’t give in to pressure to have sex when you don’t want to either. Your partner needs to respect your boundaries & know that whining & guilt tripping you into having sex won’t work. My ex used to talk about me ‘comprising’ but that only meant me giving in & him getting what he wanted. If one person feel frustrated & deprived but the other feels pressured & coerced it causes tension. A relationship can’t thrive with two sexually incompatible people.

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