Why is that so important to you? Many single people feel they’re missing out by being on their own. It’s when they start dating again that they realize they weren’t missing out at all! I personally believe it’s much better to be on your own instead of tolerating the wrong person just for the sake of not being alone. I’m a fiercely independent person & really couldn’t tolerate bending over backwards or re-arranging my life to fit someone else in.