There’s lots of single people out there who actually DO love being single — myself included. I’m always open to the opportunity of falling in love but every time I meet a guy, there is always some sort of emotional baggage holding him back that impedes the whole development of a relationship. I decided I’m better off not dealing with them because it just leads to unhappiness. The idea of love is all very well but it all depends on who you meet and when. You can’t turn someone into the right person for you, they are who they are and you can’t change that. Sometimes people can be very lonely in relationships and are better off on their own. Being strong and independent are very important traits that should attract a potential partner not repel them.

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