That's why I'm a happily unmarried woman lol! Men's career progresses and women's stagnates because of childbearing. Women have the greater responsibility for childcare and household chores. Women are the natural caregivers while men want to be 'looked after' and have their dinner on the table when they come home from work so they can play with the kids. It's 2020 but marriage is still not an equal partnership with heavily defined gender roles.