I often find that this is a common problem. The conversation during so many first dates I’ve had end up being about his ex. Why do they bring their baggage & dump it on us? Do they think we are their agony aunt?!
One guy I met told me in explicit detail that he was having a row with his brother-in-law & he was going to turn up at his house with a crow bar! 😳
Needless to say I legged it outta there after hearing that! 🤭