Great article Niki! Every one of those points you’ve mentioned above, I’ve experienced online. The no. 1 pet hate I have when reading a guy’s profile is poor grammar & spelling. Come on, are you illiterate? Did you leave school when you were 10 years old? Puts me right off! That and when guys upload pics of themselves looking like a convict!

You’d think some guys were going out of their way to repel women, NOT attract them! :-)

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